Your child is getting married!
Just reading that might bring on a wave of emotion - pride, excitement, joy… and nerves, right? Lots of nerves. It’s completely natural to feel overwhelmed in the run-up to such a big occasion
Your child is getting married!
Just reading that might bring on a wave of emotion - pride, excitement, joy… and nerves, right? Lots of nerves. It’s completely natural to feel overwhelmed in the run-up to such a big occasion, and whether you’re giving a speech, greeting guests, or just trying to hold it together during the vows, it can all feel like a lot. But here’s the thing: you deserve to enjoy this day. So let’s take a breath and look at 3 simple ways to help ease those nerves to ensure you can be fully present for every moment.
1. Wear what makes you feel amazing
At Scarlett & Jo, so many of our customers are proud mothers of the bride or groom, and the one thing they all have in common? They want to feel confident, comfortable, and themselves. It’s easy to fall into the trap of picking a dress based on other people’s expectations, but the most important thing is how you feel in it.
Choose a mother of the bride dress that reflects your personal style, flatters your shape, and gives you that special kind of confidence you can’t fake. Because when you feel good in what you’re wearing, nerves tend to melt into excitement, and you can really shine.
2. Remind yourself what the day is really about
With all the organising and build-up to the big day, it’s easy to get caught up in the pressure of everything going perfectly and being ‘just right’. But if the nerves kick in, take a moment to remember what this day is truly about. It’s not about flawless timing or photo-ready smiles; it’s about love, family, and the start of something new.
You’re not there to perform or impress. You’re there because you’re part of something meaningful. Bringing your presence, your support, and your love is more than enough. When you keep that in mind, everything else tends to settle down.
3. Create your own calm in the chaos
Weddings can feel like a blur of conversations, emotions, and logistics, and that can cause the nerves to keep bubbling up. But you don’t have to be in the thick of it all the time. One of the best ways to stay calm is to give yourself permission to step away and know that it’s OK to enjoy a quick breather every now and then.
Whether it’s taking five minutes outside, freshening up in the bathroom, or just finding a quiet spot for a sit down, those little pauses can help you feel grounded again.
Remember that you're not letting anyone down by protecting your own energy.
Own the day, your way
Here at Scarlett & Jo, we design plus-size wedding guest dresses that help you feel like the best version of yourself: confident, radiant, and ready to be part of the moment. This is a day to celebrate, so go ahead. You’ve earned it. Enjoy every precious second.